Relationships are so complicated these days. I have run into men who want to have sex but don’t want to get to know you. They want to see your body naked but showing them your mind is off-limits. It is so frustrating. Some guys have asked me for nudes while others say it makes you a slut. Those same men freely send unsolicited dick pictures to women they have never met. Ladies my best advice is to stop giving yourself away to these immature boys. Love yourself enough to be patient and wait. There are good men in the world who will protect your heart instead of breaking it. I am having to take my advice here because since the funeral my philosophy changed. Until you have an event in your life like death I don’t think you think about it. Time isn’t running out until it does. So this week I am learning patience. I pray all is well with you.