Once upon a time, I would lie to protect my family and myself. However, in 1998, I blocked out much of my childhood and started over. Little by little, everything has been exposed then I wrote an autobiography. I have nothing to hide, nor do I want fake people in my life who do shady things behind my back. I share the good, bad, and ugly in my writings and videos. It isn’t always pretty, but it is real. Sometimes I keep very private personal matters to myself until I am prepared to discuss them, but I do not lie or make up lies on someone else.
I believe talking is healing, but it needs to be with people who love you, not people who will make a mockery of your situation. When it comes to opening your soul, please try to watch the company you are around when you decide to erupt. Last night I was caught off guard and in a room full of children when a family member decided to tell some very personal news. Had the setting been different, I can assure you that the conversation would have gone in another direction. Better communication is always the key to successful relationships. Lies tend only destroy them.
I believe talking is healing, but it needs to be with people who love you, not people who will make a mockery of your situation. When it comes to opening your soul, please try to watch the company you are around when you decide to erupt. Last night I was caught off guard and in a room full of children when a family member decided to tell some very personal news. Had the setting been different, I can assure you that the conversation would have gone in another direction. Better communication is always the key to successful relationships. Lies tend only destroy them.
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