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Are you a burden?

Are you're a Burden?

Over the years, I have heard people say that about themselves and their family members, and I have felt like a burden at times.  However, recently friends have pointed out how much of a blessing I have been, and it completely humbled me.

 So if you're feeling low and like a burden, I ask that you do one thing for me.  Write down anything you do for someone else.  I don’t care if it is as simple as peeling potatoes for dinner or making a phone call.  Then look at that list every day, and when you do something new, add it to the list.  You are valuable.  Even those of us who can’t work full time pay household bills and buy food each month.  Don’t put yourself down because you know if the tables turned, you would do whatever you could for your family!  Most of all, you give them love!


Just went I think no one is watching, reading or paying attention to me someone stops me in my tracks with one comment on one of my videos.  My story has saved a life, and that is all I could have ever asked for during this journey.  At the end of the day, people have come and gone, but my children and friends have remained!  It goes to show you what relationships are most important in life.  I love you all and thank you again for the beautiful messages on TikTok.  You truly inspire me!

Much Love


Tina


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