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Please Don’t!!!!

As I am writing this, I am still distraught.  People assume that because I am single that it means I want to be in a relationship!  It also doesn’t mean I want genitalia photos sent to me!

It all started when a friend asked me to join a family on TikTok.  I felt honored, and they added me to the “family chat” on Instagram.  Everything had been going great until yesterday.  I opened my group message to see several pictures of men’s genitalia.  I was shocked and immediately left the group chat and removed the hashtag from my bio!

I am on social media to have friends, raise awareness, and to be a listening ear to people struggling.  I spend my time tending to my daily needs, helping with my grandchildren, and being a friend to those who need me.  I have no time for drama, and I damn sure don’t want anything to do with pornography!  I am completely against that, and after last year I don’t think it is wise to even send personal photos to your significant other.  You never know when things will go south, and the relationship will end.

Just please don't send your genitalia photos to me.  I have zero interest in them!  I am too busy for a relationship!

Much Love, Much Respect



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